C.Faith Holland

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You can Say this instead March 12, 2016

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When you think this… You can say this instead…

  1. Think about the future! ~ Enjoy the moment you’re in right now.
  2. Don’t do something you’ll regret! ~ In the end, we only regret the things we didn’t get to do.
  3. I wish I hadn’t done that! ~ I can’t change the past—learn and move on.
  4. Will things ever work out? ~ What’s meant to be will happen.
  5. Why did they do that? ~ I can’t control others but I can control how I react to it.
  6. Will I ever find happiness? ~ What can I be happy about right now?
  7. What’s wrong with me? ~ I am perfect exactly the way I am in this moment.

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Simple Truth 1.31.2016 January 31, 2016

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My Heart is at ease knowing that what is meant FOR me will never miss me, and that which misses me was never meant FOR me…

grant me strength

 

Thought for Today 2.7.15 February 7, 2015

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To be fatigued is to be dis-spirited, but to be inspired is to be in the spirit. To be egocentric is to be dispirited, but to be Self-centered in the right sense is to be inspired, or in the Soul. The truly inspired are enlightened and cannot abide in darkness. ~ ACIM Text Chapter 4 – Root of All Evil

beauty

 

Thought for Today 12.17.14 December 17, 2014

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Separation or Joining: Each moment offers us a choice of whether to separate or join. That is the only choice we have faced before and the only choice we will ever face. Unfortunately, we do not remember the pain of separation or the bliss of joining. That is why we have come to this place together, to help each other remember. ~ Paul Ferrini

Home is on the inside I will be home for Christmas

 

Thought for Today 10.6.14 Day 6 of Our 30 Day Commitment to Peace October 6, 2014

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The pure Self alone is. It is timeless and unchanging. It is what we truly are. Removing the mask of personal identity, this liberating Truth becomes spontaneously known inside the Heart. ~ Mooji

You cant be jealous with comparing

 

Thought for Today 7.13.14 July 13, 2014

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The romance has died and the promise of special love has crashed and burned. It always does. Now that same relationship that had the purpose of supporting and glorifying the ego becomes a major force in undoing the ego. Learning and forgiveness opportunities abound. Now, instead of the relationship teaching you that you are separate and special, you can learn that you are one – that you but do a dance with your Self. As you recognize the inclusive oneness of love, your relationship stops being exclusive and becomes a phenomenal teaching accomplishment. ~ Benny 

 

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Thought for Today 6.11.14 June 11, 2014

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When you live in complete acceptance of what is, that is the end of all the drama in your life. ~ Eckhart Tolle

 

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Thought for Today 6.5.14 June 5, 2014

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When we open our eyes this morning we can remember to also open our mind, heart and arms too. Being open makes for easier, more joyful, more productive and more exciting days. And if we choose, that’s the kind of day that waits.

 

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Thoughts and Quotes for Today 3.18.14 March 19, 2014

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1. Letting the Fire Burn Itself Out: You can be honest with the people you love without sharing every fearful thought or feeling that comes up. If you need to share every fear, you put others through an emotional buzz saw. That puts a big strain on your relationship. If you are triggered by something someone else says, expressing your anger may not be as helpful as riding it out and taking time to understand what triggered you. Then, you can take more responsibility for your anger.  You might even realize that it has very little to do with what the other person did or said. Every relationship has its explosive moments. If you don’t pour gasoline on the fire, the flames eventually die out. But if you insist on speaking to others when you are upset, don’t be surprised if the fire escalates and begins to burn out of control. ~ Everyday Wisdom by Paul Ferrini

 

2. Today We Affirm: I am living by Grace and sourced by Love. I have dissolved all concepts of struggle and suffering. I invoke the energy of the Cosmos as I call my good to me today. The limitless abundance of the Universe is flowing now – and I am an open available vessel, ready to be filled. There is no need to worry or rush – perfect flow is mine. Problems solve themselves & dissolve before they even appear. Answers to my requests come with ease and perfect timing. Healing Light surrounds me & flows through me. The air is thick with miracles & joyful transformations. My heart is open – my mind is clear and spacious. Today I look through eyes of love at a world of effortless Grace. ~ Jacob Glass

 

3. No one loses anyone, because no one owns anyone. – Paulo Coelho

 

4.  “There is no other greater ecstasy than to know who you ARE.” ~ Osho 

 

5. Find your Self, and BE that… Coaching can assist you with that… Call or Email for a free session… Namaste, Faith

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Thoughts and Quotes for Today 3.3.14 March 3, 2014

1. The middle way is like being in the world but not of it. We are no longer deceived by any of it. We no longer feel threatened, defensive or fearful. We do not judge or give meaning to the seeming drama. We may appear to participate but we are not concerned about results. We smile a lot more, and our Light blesses the world. Yet, all the while, absolutely nothing disturbs our peace.

 

2. What’s wrong with being a people pleaser? I love treating others as I would like to be treated. But IF people pleasing is motivated by fear and/or a need for others to like and validate us, then we’re coming from the wrong place. There is nothing wrong with being a people pleaser, but it should be Joyful and about giving (giving and receiving being the same, ie feels the same), not a sacrifice that is about giving to getting. (note to self, if giving feels better than getting then I need to look at my motives… if I don’t like what I am getting, I must look at what I am giving, and it might not be in the same area, I could be giving “shit” to someone in my mind and then see someone giving ME “shit” later in the day… Everything I give, I give to myself)

 

3. Opening the Door to Love: Don’t worry about how long your relationship is going to last. Just give it your best energy and attention. Experience as much joy as you can with your partner. Learn as much as you can from the painful times. Do your best to be honest and clear with each other. Stretch your comfort zones a little. Be flexible and constructive. Be the first to yield and to bless. Give without worrying about what you are going to get back. 

Don’t be full of pride, but admit your faults and mistakes. Don’t be ashamed or apologetic. Have the courage to be yourself. You will never be perfect in your ability to give or receive love. Don’t try to be. Each day, just be willing to learn something about yourself and your partner. That way, little by little, the door to love will continue to open. ~ Paul Ferrini

 

4. Connecting to Love: When you enter a beautiful forest, you do not say “only the birch trees are beautiful” or “the maples are better than the oaks.”  You admire the beauty and diversity of all the trees in the forest. People who think their religion is better than other religions are missing the beauty of diversity. Each religion has a unique character that enables it to speak to certain people and not to others. If we don’t respect other traditions, we will weaken our own. Our narrowness and prejudice will be obvious to all who listen to us. Only by treating people of other faiths with love and acceptance will we give our tradition a good name. Indeed, only by connecting to the core teaching of Love within our tradition can we pass that teaching on to our children. A barren tree will make no fruit. A religion that does not help its followers connect to love will not prosper. ~ Paul Ferrini

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