C.Faith Holland

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Contemplation for Today 4.6.14 April 6, 2014

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Stay in Your Own Life: Don’t make decisions for other people. That will just take the focus away from your life. Let others find their own way. Support them. Encourage them. Cheer them on. But don’t think you know what’s good for them. You don’t know. When you take inappropriate responsibility for others, you overextend and weaken yourself. Don’t do that. Let others live their lives. Stay in your own life and make your own decisions. Put your attention where it belongs. Listen to your guidance, honor it, act on it, and be committed to it. That is a full time job.  ~ Everyday Wisdom by Paul Ferrini

 

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Thoughts and Quotes for Today 8.18.13 August 18, 2013

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1. To seek people’s love and approval assumes that you aren’t whole. ~ Byron Katie

 

2. You say, “I want to be in the fire that burns the unreal.” Then I light the match and you say, “I’ll come back in a minute.” This is a very common reaction from the ego mind. Fears come the moment you choose freedom. To really choose freedom is a rare thing, so don’t be surprised.

Then what to do? Stay with choosing freedom. Say ‘yes’ inside your heart and keep quiet. Nothing can stop you from being what you are. Just let the ‘yes’ sink to the very bottom of your being.

Mind says, “Freedom will bring painful changes.” It is not a painful change; it is the most beautiful change. Something, in fact, stops changing and comes to rest in its unchanging root.

Welcome Shiva’s fire, Shiva’s fever, and come Home. Lucky you. Now see with the eyes of your Heart: I am not leaving anywhere. I am not going anywhere. I have never been anywhere. Everywhere— I am.  Confirm!~ Mooji

 

3. Nothing makes us less spiritual than spiritual competition…

 

4. Peace is found in accepting what happens without resistance, while trusting that all is for our good. And along with this attitude of surrender and flow one is still quietly mindful of listening for Guidance and following His lead – that compulsive, intuitive hit to do or say something.

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Thoughts and Quotes for Today 6.10.13 June 10, 2013

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1. ” The biggest barrier to awakening is the belief that it is rare ” ~  Adya

 

2. Loving and cherishing our self does not mean that we are selfish or egotistical. It means that we graciously accept ourselves for who we ARE. (without our stories of “littleness)(There is a profound correlation between the Love we have for ourselves. . . and how deeply we Love others.) If we want our Love to make a difference in the world, we start by embracing ourselves with kindness.

 

3. “Creating the life you want is going to be an empty and hollow experience if Love is not at the very center of everything we do and intend. This is not only Love for other people and what we are doing, but is Love for ourselves. Love will color our days with meaning and depth. It will be the melody that plays in the background of every scene we are acting out in our lives.

 

4. Love is not something we get or even give – it is what we ARE. In Reality, there is nothing else. The love we seek is at our very center, awaiting activation through our kindness. Love is simple and uncomplicated. Relationships are often not so simple because of the complicated stories we tell, our expectations, and the ego tendency to gather up evidence which fortifies our grievances. But Love itself is extremely simple, simple, simple. You could boil it down to two words, be kind.” ~ Jacob Glass

 

5. Follow your heart, listen to your inner guide, go where your Spirit guides you…

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Thoughts and Quotes for Today 4.24.13 April 24, 2013

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1. Eyes are useless when the mind is blind… 

 

2. Everything will come in perfect timing… 

 

3. We are free to choose but we are not free from the consequences of our choices… as we awaken/re-member to Truth, we start to see these choices differently and then we can ASK Divine Inner Guidance for ALL consequences to be undone… 

 

4. Remember the High Vibrational Being you Truly Are. You are Light and Energy, not this form that you temporarily occupy… 

 

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Thoughts and Quotes for Today 3.24.13 March 24, 2013

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1. “Forget safety. Live where you fear to live. Destroy your reputation. Be notorious.” ― Rumi

2. One of the greatest Gifts we give ourselves in Life is sharing with someone who knows all our mistakes and differences and yet still finding each other absolutely amazing!!!

3. How to know when I am shifting responsibility for my own happiness and therefore my thoughts are  “OUT of my business” and in “your” business or the Universe’s business ??? Anytime I start with “People ____” or “they ____” or “society_____” or “everyone_____” …. how can this BE??? it’s ALL ME…. starting with my thoughts… We can question our stressful thoughts and turn it around…

4. “Thoughts are like raindrops-would you argue with a raindrop?” ~ Bryon Katie

5. Being Love, rather than giving or taking love, is the only thing that provides stability. ~ Ram Dass

6. Peace of mind is clearly an internal matter. It must begin with your own thoughts, and then extend outward. It is from your peace of mind that a peaceful perception of the world arises. ~ A Course in Miracles

 

Forget Safety...

 

Thoughts and Quotes for Today 3.22.13 March 22, 2013

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1. Ultimately forgiveness doesn’t ask nor expect the world to change; yet, forgiveness simply sets it free.

 

2. Stay in Your Own Life. Don’t make decisions for other people. That will just take the focus away from your life. Let others find their own way. Support them. Encourage them. Cheer them on. But don’t think you know what’s good for them. You don’t know. When you take inappropriate responsibility for others, you overextend and weaken yourself.

Don’t do that. Let others live their lives. Stay in your own life and make your own decisions. Put your attention where it belongs. Listen to your guidance, honor it, act on it, and be committed to it. That is a full time job. ~ Everyday Wisdom by Paul Ferrini

 

3. When Life is Sweet, say Thank You and Celebrate…. When Life is bitter, say Thank You and Appreciate the opportunity to move beyond taste… 

 

4. Ego is that part of the split mind that is always looking for external validation and support. Spirit is that part of the mind that rests in peace and certainty. It does not need or seek external validation or support. And it is from that place of peace and certainty that unconditional love inclusively extends to all.

We can only have, what we are willing to give to others. We make room in our heart, for more each time we give away what we want.

Conditional love says, “you do and say what I want you to do and say and I will love you. And you better love me back at least as much as I love you. Otherwise, the deal is off.” Unconditional love is extended without the need to get anything in return.

 

5. You’re doing fine. You’re doing better than you know. Whatever you think should be otherwise, should not. You re in the stream of perfection. It could not be otherwise. And everything you truly desire, must rush towards you.

 

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Thoughts and Quotes for Today 3.5.13 March 5, 2013

Filed under: Love — C. Faith Holland @ 1:32 pm
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1.  If there still appears to be anyone outside of you then your mind still needs healing.

 

2. Enlightenment or awakening, whatever you want to call it, can be accepted by you at this very moment. It is yours. It is what you are. It is not about something to be achieved in some distant future. It is about accepting a more expansive, loving and aware version of you now. You are that inclusive love and awareness. This moment is the only time that it can be accepted and known.

 

3. You are wealthy beyond measure, and you are the only one that can possibly deprive yourself of anything. Understand, however, that Love is all there is. Love is all that you can give and all that you can receive. And the more you give the more you have. In fact, your having Love rests on giving Love.

 

4. In order to forgive I am going to have to have the willingness to ask for help that I might see and understand differently – that I might see that there is nothing to forgive. There is an awakened part of my mind that already knows this. It is that knowingness that I come into alignment with when I ask for help. ~ Thanks Benny!!

 

5. The Truth is – I have Never been abandoned, even though I cannot always hear the Voice that is guiding me home. I am created by Love in every second. We all are, as are the planets and the starts. So, what is there to fear? ~ Oriah Mountain Dreamer 

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