C.Faith Holland

Soul Coaching

Thought for Today 9.7.15 September 7, 2015

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When you give up the approval of others and live by your own rules, you begin to gain your own approval. JOY is the result of living without guilt, shame or the sense that you are in some way inappropriate. Trying to please others is the fastest way to lose your own peace and joy. The people who wish you were different in some way are exactly the people you are better off without. ~ Jacob Glass

right people


Thought for Today 12.24.14 Merry Christmas!!! December 24, 2014

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“How do you react when you think that you need people’s love? Do you become a slave to their approval? Do you live an inauthentic life because you can’t bear the thought that they might disapprove of you? Do you try to figure out how they would like you to be, and then try to become that, like a chameleon? In fact, you can never really get their love this way. You try to turn into someone you aren’t, and then when they say “I love you” you can’t believe it, because they’re loving a facade. They’re loving someone who doesn’t even exist, the person you’re pretending to be. It’s difficult to seek other people’s love. It’s deadly. In seeking it you lose what is genuine. This is the prison we create for ourselves as we try to get the love we already have.” ~ Byron Katie

Mentally somewhere else


Thoughts and Quotes for Today 5.19.14 May 19, 2014

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The primary cause of unhappiness is never the situation, but thoughts about it. Be aware of the thoughts you are thinking. ~ Eckhart Tolle 



Thoughts and Quotes for Today 12.3.13 December 3, 2013

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1. Our mind is a garden, Our thoughts are the seeds, we can grow flowers or we can grow weeds…


2. Empower yourself! Stop judging life! Look at every event as Blessed. It is offering you the fastest track to get onto your highest, happiest and most successful state. Your soul is working it all out perfectly. When you accept this you will make life amendments easily and lovingly. Then the pain stops and the joyous Creation begins.. ~ Melanie Tonia Evans


3. The Secret To Having It All Is Knowing You Already Do. ~ W. D. Stickers


4. When you come to the edge of all the Light you know, and are about to step off into the darkness of the unknown, FAITH is knowing one of two things will happen: There will be something solid to stand on or you will be taught how to fly. ~ Barbara Winter


5. Real Sharing: Listen to others not to agree or to disagree, but simply to hear each other’s experience. Speak with others not to obtain attention or approval, but to communicate what is in your heart and mind. The greatest joy is not to find agreement with others,  but to hear and be heard deeply and without judgment. This outcome can be achieved in every encounter. ~  Paul Ferrini


Love is the Breath of all Life


Thoughts and Quotes for Today 6.5.13 June 5, 2013

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1. Love is not merely a romantic exchange; but, is a unified awareness. Thanks Pamela


2. “Whatever you hold in your mind on a consistent basis is exactly what you will experience in your life” ~ Anthony Robbins


3. Self Betrayal:
Who is responsible for the fact that you choose to be with people who betray you? Are they responsible or are you? When you trust people who do not deserve your trust, you get hurt. And then, instead of seeing your error and learning from it, you blame the person who betrayed you, which shifts the responsibility inappropriately. And when that doesn’t work, you try to beat yourself up by engaging in some kind of self-destructive behavior like picking up a bottle, overeating, or having promiscuous sex. That way you get to punish yourself without taking responsibility for your role in what happened. Better to take responsibility for the decisions that you make and leave the self-crucifixion out.

If you have a pattern of attracting people who treat you unfairly or unkindly, then be more careful about whom you trust. Let people win your trust over time. Don’t give your power away to others just because you want their love and approval. Don’t depend on others to give you the love, the approval, or the safety you need. Give them to yourself and then you cannot be betrayed. ~ Everyday Wisdom by Paul Ferrini


4. Today, I do not struggle, strain, worry or fight my way through anything. I walk the path before me with Love and joyful patience with myself and all those I encounter today. I have Divine Discipline and Self-Control.


5. We are not given a good life or a bad life. It’s up to us to make it what we want


6. You’re only here for a short visit. Don’t hurry. Don’t worry. And be sure to smell the flowers along the way. ~ Walter C. Hagen



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