C.Faith Holland

Soul Coaching

Resisting the Temptation for Conflict January 18, 2016

Filed under: Love,With A Grateful Heart — C. Faith Holland @ 12:33 pm

Divine Love, I’m feeling tempted to engage in judgement and/or conflict toward another person. I find their words, habits or behaviors to be annoying or offensive. I AM WILLING to consider that other people simply mirror my/our own judgments and limiting thoughts back to me/us. If I am seeing someone else as inadequate, then it must be that I am feeling inadequate. If I am judging someone else as committed to pain, suffering guilt, misery or attack, then it must be that I am judging myself hostilely. I am learning that I cannot see in others what I am unable to identify within myself. I AM WILLING to forgive this person and use what they are showing me as a reminder to bless and forgive myself. Please heal my thoughts and help me to see the Truth as You created it. Thy will be done.. And so it is!!

I am blessed


Thoughts for Today 8.29.14 August 29, 2014

Byron Katie on “After Life:

The woman interviewing me today asked if I believed in an afterlife. I said yes, completely, and no, completely. The afterlife is now, and everyone talks about believing in now until they see it as just another concept that isn’t true and eventually they begin to see that actually now is the afterlife that they always wondered about. She asked me why I believed in the afterlife and what is the afterlife, and it never ceases to amaze me that the obvious is not understood. Why do I believe in the afterlife? This moment is after the past and that makes this moment the only afterlife possible to “not” believe in, because that now is gone, and so is this one. Poof! Live, a slight of mind, until it’s not.
The afterlife is what happened after I brushed my teeth this morning.
This moment ends my whole life. Finally I am living in the afterlife.
You, as you believe you to be, have never been born, you are a mere ghost of your own imagination.
What to see and experience the after world? This is it! It happens in the afterlife. It’s happening now, it happens each moment. I call it heaven! Are you there yet?

see with your heart


Thoughts and Quotes for Today 1.15.13 January 15, 2013

Filed under: Love,Thoughts and Quotes for Today,With A Grateful Heart — C. Faith Holland @ 1:26 pm

1. Stress is a signal that you’re asleep. Question your thinking and wake yourself up. ~ Byron Katie


2. You create an entire picture or movie in your mind, and in that picture you are the director, you are the producer, you are the main actor or actress. Everyone else is a secondary actor or actress. It is your movie.  ~ Don Miguel Ruiz


3. Freedom is instantaneous the moment we accept things as the ARE…


4. We all smile in the same language…


5. We Affirm: I am writing the story of my life today with my thoughts and words. This is a happy story of Love, Joy, Peace, Prosperity, Health and Wholeness. I am creating it in my mind as I go along and I get to choose how to edit the story. I use Divine Imagination in positive creative ways today as I create the story that I Love to tell and live.



Thoughts and Quotes for Today 12.17.12 December 17, 2012

Filed under: With A Grateful Heart — C. Faith Holland @ 12:10 pm

1. You may hide yourself in a thousand forms, still, All Beloved, I recognize you….  You may cover yourself in magic mists, All-present, I can always tell that it is YOU. ~ Johann Wolgang von Goethe

2. There is no thought existing within your mind that thoroughly expresses the Ultimate Truth about you or any other.

3. We race through our days and our life as though there is some destination that we have to reach. In truth, there is no destination that we have to reach. That is an illusion. It’s the journey inward that really matters, and our only responsibility is to allow Joy in this moment, which will bring us Joy all the way through the journey.

4. “Wisdom consists in doing the next think you have to do, doing it with your whole heart, and finding delight in doing it.” ~ Meister Eckhart

5. True compassion means to meet others beyond their story, and to see that there are no others.

We are One, One sees Oneness, ego sees ego


You Don’t have the Wrong Horse December 7, 2012

Filed under: With A Grateful Heart — C. Faith Holland @ 7:15 pm

You Don't have the Wrong Horse







You Don’t Have the Wrong Horse

Please stop complaining and finding fault with your life.
Experiment; try a different approach!

For thirty days, practice finding something positive
in everything that happens to you.

Life is your horse, but you aren’t riding it.
Get up in the saddle and stay on it for 30 days.

Don’t stop riding because you think
you have the wrong horse.

You don’t have the wrong horse,
so don’t try to trade your horse for a better one.

Only the horse you are riding
will take you where you need to go.

Trust it and care for it.
And see what happens.

One more hint: If you lead your horse to water
and he won’t drink, don’t worry.

He just isn’t thirsty. When he needs a drink,
he will find the stream before you do.

From Everyday Wisdom by Paul Ferrini.


Thoughts and Quotes for Today 12.2.12 December 2, 2012

Filed under: Love,With A Grateful Heart — C. Faith Holland @ 1:41 pm

1. Few people realize that the origin of the word, “forget” simply means “to loose one’s grip on.” Thus, as we truly forgive, forgetting naturally follows…

Your Heart and My Heart are very, very old friends.

Your Heart and My Heart are very, very old friends.

2. If I think you’re my problem, I’m insane. ~ Bryon Katie

3. “A teacher of fear can’t bring peace on Earth. We have been trying to do it that way for thousands of years. The person who turns inner violence around, the person who finds peace inside and lives it, is the one who teaches what true peace is. We are waiting for just one teacher. You’re the one.” ~ Byron Katie

3. “How do you react when you think you need people’s love? Do you become a slave for their approval? Do you live an inauthentic life because you can’t bear the thought that they might disapprove of you? Do you try to figure out how they would like you to be, and then try to become that, like a chameleon? In fact, you never really get their love.

You try to turn into someone you aren’t and then when they say “I love you,” you can’t believe it, because they are loving a facade. They’re loving someone who doesn’t even exist, the person you’re pretending to be.

It’s difficult to seek other people’s love. It’s deadly. In seeking it, you lose what is genuine. This is the prison we create for ourselves as we try to get the love we already have. How can you know that a particular relationship is good or not? When you are out of sync with goodness, you know it: you aren’t happy.

And if a relationship is anything less than good, you need to question your thoughts. It’s your responsibility to find your own way back to a relationship with yourself that make sense.

When you have that sweet relationship with yourself, your partner is an added pleasure. It’s over-the-top grace.

Romantic love is the story of how you need another person to complete you. It’s an absolutely insane story. My experience is that I need no one to complete me. As soo as I realize that, everyone completes me.” ~ Byron Katie

4. “I’ve heard people say that they cling to their painful thoughts because they’re afraid that without them they wouldn’t be activists for peace. “If I feel peaceful,” they say, “why would I bother taking action at all?”

My answer is “Because that’s what love does.”
To think that we need sadness or outrage to motivate us to do what’s right is insane. As if the clearer and happier you get, the less kind you become. As if when someone finds freedom, she just sits around all day with drool running down her chin. My experience is the opposite. Love is action.”  ~ Byron Katie


Thoughts and Quotes for Today 10.6.12 October 6, 2012

Filed under: With A Grateful Heart — C. Faith Holland @ 12:46 pm
With A Grateful Heart
1. Always remember not to give away your power- instead get in touch with your own magnificence (Inner Self). When it comes to finding the right path, there’s a different answer for each person. The only solution I have is to love yourSelf unconditionally and be yourSelf fearlessly, so that you can allow your answers to come from within in a way that is most appropriate for you. ~ Anita Moorjani
2. Whenever we manage to Love without expectations, calculations, or negotiations, we are indeed in Heaven. ~Rumi
3. What is the secret then? Attain that Presence, and forget trying to attain the health, wealth, harmony, wholeness, and completeness, for thereby does the world lose its demonstration. Praying for peace on earth is the surest way to never find it. Praying for health, praying for wealth, praying for supply, praying for home, or praying for companionship is the surest way to lose it. But when you take no thought for those things in your life and pray only for the recognition, realization, and demonstration of conscious oneness with God (Creator/Source), you awake and find that all things have been added unto you. – Joel Goldsmith, Seek Ye First
4.  Stop acting so small. You are the universe in ecstatic motion. ~ Rumi

Life is showing UP each moment waiting for US to re-member the Truth… to Love, which is all that we ARE… We are confirming or denying this in each moment… The only Pray I ever say these days are “Thank you, Thank You, Thank YOU” in Gratitude… The better it gets, the better it gets, while letting go of our stories of littleness…



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