C.Faith Holland

Soul Coaching

Thoughts and Quotes for Today 1.10.13 January 10, 2013

Filed under: Love — C. Faith Holland @ 1:56 pm

1. Your world view… That’s what shapes your experience of life not life itself. Change your world view change of your experience of life. ….

2. “Love Holds No Grievances” ~ A Course In Miracles

3. An Old Sufi Story:  “A man entered a village and went to see the Sufi Master. The visitor said “I’m deciding whether I should move here or not – and I’m wondering what the people here are like?” The Sufi Master said “Tell me, what kind of people live where you come from” The visitor said “They were robbers, cheats and liars” The Sufi Master said “You know, those are exactly the same kind of people who live here” The visitor left and never came back. Another visitor entered the village and asked the same question of the Sufi Master “I am thinking of moving here – can you tell me what the people are like?” Again the Sufi Master asked “Tell me, what kind of people live where you come from?” The visitor said “Oh, they are the kindest, gentlest, most compassionate, loving people. I shall miss them terribly” The Sufi Master said “Those are exactly the kinds of people who live here too”.

4. “How do you react when you think you need people’s love? Do you become a slave for their approval? Do you live an inauthentic life because you can’t bear the thought that they might disapprove of you? Do you try to figure out how they would like you to be, and then try to become that, like a chameleon? In fact, you never really get their love. You turn into someone you aren’t, and then when they say “I love you,” you can’t believe it, because they’re loving a facade. They’re loving someone who doesn’t even exist, the person you’re pretending to be. It’s difficult to seek other people’s love. It’s deadly. In seeking it, you lose what is genuine. This is the prison we create for ourselves as we seek what we already have.” – Byron Katie

No Real Love

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