1. This is no longer my life. When it was under my management it was always a disaster. I’m finished with this life. I gave it away. It is under new management. I am no longer concerned. It’s not my problem. I’m just hanging out on the sidelines watching – not even that amused anymore. I’m starting to see that it is just an old rerun.
2. You want a relationship that works? Give up the idea of getting anything. Look at your relationship as an opportunity to give and serve. You always get out of a relationship what you have given. But remember, relationships are used by the Holy Spirit to undo the ego (you as you think you want to be), and it makes quick work of this undoing. Give, serve and let it go (the ego).
3. Just because your relationship seems to have come to an end that does not mean that the relationship did not work. On the contrary, it worked perfectly. You gave each other many teaching and learning opportunities, and each learned as much as he could from the other at the time. Be grateful. ~ Thanks Benny
4. “It’s good to acknowledge that the same feelings or situation may happen again, if only in your thoughts. When you realize that suffering and discomfort are the call to inquiry and to the freedom that follows, you may actually begin to look forward to uncomfortable feelings. You may even experience them as friends coming to show you what you have not yet investigated thoroughly enough” ~ Byron Katie